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This phrase \u201cand X remembered y\u201d appears three other times in Genesis (8:1; 19:29 and 30;22) and is intended to let readers know not just that there is memory, but there is action. In the other three instances, God is doing the remembering and remembers Noah to make the waters of the flood recede, Abraham to save his nephew Lot in Sodom and Rachel to open her womb and enable her to have a child. Remembrance is <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">not<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> just a thought, it involves tangible \u00a0action.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So when readers see that Joseph, following this well-established pattern of remembering for action, is involved in remembering, we are forewarned that it will be leading to something. 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Inside this man who was second-only-to-Pharaoh lived an unfulfilled \u00a0little boy - eager to show his parents what he had become, eager to make them proud of him, eager to bask in and be the source of their tender feelings.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All this was no doubt swirling around inside Joseph as he once again saw his brothers, and especially Benjamin. No doubt Benjamin awakened this yearning child in Joseph. For Benjamin was not only his full brother, but a reminder to Joseph of himself as a child, and the blessings of which he was deprived. 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The word that begins the sentence in which he starts to speak, and, indeed, the name of the Torah portion, is <em>vayigash<\/em>, variously translated as \u201cand he approached\u201d and \u201cand he drew near\u201d (Gen. 44:18).<\/p>\r\n<p>This verb appears only five times in the book of Genesis, each on a momentous occasion, signaling either superhuman effort, or sealing spectacular deception. Its first appearance describes Abraham\u2019s action in Genesis 18, after God has revealed his plan to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah. <em>Vayigash Abraham vayomer<\/em> \/ \u201cAnd Abraham came forward and said . . .\u201d (Gen. 18:23) introduces Abraham at his most bold, \u201ccoming near\u201d to God\u2014with all the implications such a phrase entails\u2026. Judah, with this verb, will approach what is for him the embodiment not of heavenly, but of earthly power\u2014and not for a principle or for hypothetical people he does not know, but for a beloved, if clearly flawed, father.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s in recounting the narrative of that very father that we encounter the other three appearances in the Torah of the word <em>vayigash<\/em>. In Gen. 27:21, Isaac demands of Jacob (masquerading as Esau) <em>gish-a li<\/em> \/ \u201cPlease approach me.\u201d Verse 22 begins <em>Vayigash Yaakov<\/em> \/ \u201cAnd Jacob drew close to his father Isaac, who felt him and wondered, \u201cThe voice is the voice of Jacob, yet the hands are the hands of Esau\" (Gen. 27:22). \u2026In verse 26, Isaac again bids Jacob approach: <em>Gisha na ush\u2019ka li<\/em> \/ \u201cApproach and kiss me,\u201d and we\u2019re told <em>Vayigash vayishakh lo<\/em> \/ \u201cAnd he approached and kissed him\u201d (Gen. 27:27)\u2026.<\/p>\r\n<p>The fourth appearance of the verb, when Jacob single-handedly moves the stone in front of the well for the beautiful Rachel\u2014<em>vayigash Yaakov vayagel et haeven<\/em> (Gen. 29:10)\u2014signals a rare superhuman physical achievement in the Five Books of Moses\u2026<\/p>\r\n<p>The <em>vayigash<\/em> that introduces Judah\u2019s transformational speech both aligns him with Abraham and Jacob at their most heroic\u2014one spiritually so, the other physically so\u2014and also serves to reverse the intergenerational trend of brother mistreating brother in which the verb doubly appears. It establishes Judah both as demonstrating the human equivalent of Abraham\u2019s spiritual daring, and the emotional equivalent of his father\u2019s superhuman physical effort on behalf of love\u2014as well as setting him out as the antithesis of his father Jacob at his worst moment. With the speech that follows this verb, Judah will reverse not only his own sin against his own brother, but his father\u2019s sin against his\u2026.<\/p>\r\n<p>The very reason Judah and his brothers treated Joseph so cruelly\u2014their father\u2019s favoritism\u2014has become the centerpiece of Judah\u2019s plea to Joseph on Benjamin\u2019s behalf. He offers to take Benjamin\u2019s place as slave\u2014\u201cTherefore please let your servant remain as a slave to my lord instead of the boy\u201d (Gen.44:33)\u2014for the very same reason that he sold Joseph into slavery. The reason for sin becomes the reason for repentance; the nature of the sin\u2014turning his father\u2019s favorite\/his own brother into a slave\u2014becomes the mechanism of repentance: offering to serve as slave in his father\u2019s favorite\u2019s\/his brother\u2019s stead. 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That\u2019s all we can say right now: maybe...","post_main_content_content":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having taking the extraordinary step of revealing himself to his brothers, Joseph is met with what must have been silence born of terror. Instead of an emotional reunion, then, we hear a theological discourse, as Joseph fumbles for words and thoughts to put his brothers at ease:<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDon\u2019t be distressed or be remorseful that you sold me here; it was to keep life going that God sent me ahead of you. \u2026 God sent me ahead of you to ensure your survival on earth, and to save your lives in an extraordinary deliverance, so it was not you who sent me here, but God. 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