{"id":86845,"date":"2021-01-17T22:15:25","date_gmt":"2021-01-17T20:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/?p=86845"},"modified":"2021-01-21T19:18:40","modified_gmt":"2021-01-21T17:18:40","slug":"tuning-up-to-play","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/en\/tuning-up-to-play\/","title":{"rendered":"Tuning Up To Play"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[281],"tags":[],"acf":{"old_id":"86845","type":"no","iframe":"","writer":86824,"related_cahpter":"657","type_929":"2","show_author_image":false,"old_create_date":"","old_url":"","post_main_content":{"description":"A person must be balanced between impulsiveness and procrastination\r\n\r\n","content":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">David says, in the Psalms (Ch. 90) <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kilinu shenotenu kemo hegeh<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211;we spend our years like a <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hegeh<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. That last word is usually translated as \u201ca tale that is told\u201d or \u201ca sigh\u201d&#8211; from the word <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lehegot<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, to speak or utter. But the Gaon of Vilna has a far more acute insight: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em>hegeh<\/em> <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is related to the word <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">higayon be\u2019khinor<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em>,<\/em> to play on a harp or lyre. Thus, \u201cwe have spent our years tuning up\u201d&#8211; always preparing, practicing, expecting, waiting&#8211; but never accomplishing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What a tragedy&#8211; spending a life tuning up, but never quite producing a single clear note or melody. Some of us suffer from that&#8211;and it is a defect in our <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">menschlichkeit<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. We want to study and use our heads, learn some Torah. So we prepare, inquire about classes, set the alarm, look about for babysitters, buy notebooks&#8211;we tune up, but never quite get around to it. We would like to be as charitable in a significant way as we know we should. So we think and question, discuss it with our accountants, partners, wives, children&#8211;and then we discover that life is past&#8211; <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kilinu shenotenu <\/span><\/em><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8212; <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and we still have done none of those things we deemed so precious and so wanted to!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kemo hegeh<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8212; those who only tune up are not yet <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">menschen<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No wonder the ancients said that a man is an <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">olam katan<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a microcosm or small world. 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