{"id":72295,"date":"2020-03-24T18:01:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T16:01:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/?p=72295"},"modified":"2020-03-24T18:01:50","modified_gmt":"2020-03-24T16:01:50","slug":"the-value-of-deprivation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/en\/the-value-of-deprivation\/","title":{"rendered":"The Value of Deprivation"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[281],"tags":[],"acf":{"old_id":"72295","type":"no","iframe":"","writer":67893,"related_cahpter":"444","type_929":"2","show_author_image":false,"old_create_date":"","old_url":"","post_main_content":{"description":"Will we appreciate what we have lost? And is human connection worth the risk?\r\n\r\n","content":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Israel\u2019s punishment was meant to be deprivation. Deprivation of their freedom, their land, their temple. They had entered a vicious cycle of abusing the gifts and tools that they had been given, so they were taken away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Israel had been tasked with enlightening the world with the message of monotheism, but had not only failed but had themselves worshiped\u00a0 many gods. Exiled, some fled to Egypt, where they continued their pagan practices as if there had never been an exodus or a Moses. Even the banishment from the land and proximity to God hadn\u2019t taught them the required lesson. The punishment had failed, so Jeremiah tells them that they will be wiped out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When something is easily attainable and always available it loses its desirability. Vendors, economists and singles have known this for centuries &#8211; if you want to make something ultra-desirable you make it scarce. Economists call them Veblen goods; in the dating game it is called \u201cplaying hard to get\u201d. The more unattainable, the more precious it must be, so the more we will sacrifice for it. The entire value of the thing is a factor of its unattainability, and hence prestige for the acquiror.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Israel was no longer willing to sacrifice anything for their local, familiar, available God, so he pressed the reset button in the hope that some of them would one day desire Him again. When everything becomes cheapened, sometimes the only way is to completely reset and start to rebuild again from a firmer footing. Only when the people couldn\u2019t sacrifice to God anymore did they miss it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once, it is the not too distant past, we <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">could <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">visit the sick and the elderly, gather together to pray, study, build communities or maintain our health.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There was a time, not so long ago, when we <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">could <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">invite guests to our homes on Shabbat and ensure that nobody was alone.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once, when somebody died, we <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">could <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">attend the funeral and visit the shiva house to console the mourners.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once, when there was a joyous occasion &#8211; a wedding, a bar-mitzvah &#8211; we <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">could <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">invite all our friends and family and mark the occasion with joy and openness.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once, we <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">could <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">visit our grandparents, and grandparents <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">could <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">take care of their grandchildren.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only now we are deprived of all those things we realise the value that they had. We have time to sit and wonder if we were really doing them whole-heatedly and with the proper motivations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Soon we will be returned from these personalised exiles and we will have a chance to experience anew all those things we have been deprived of, but with meaning and desire.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Human connection is always dangerous, but in civilized society, this danger is usually only on the psychological plane. But our actions towards our fellow humans can kill &#8211; whether with dirty hands or an unclean heart &#8211; and we understand that we are also living inside a metaphor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But the rabbis told us that human connection is worth the risk: \u201cGive me companionship or give me death\u201d. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(Ta\u2019anit 23a).<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n","image":{"ID":72296,"id":72296,"title":"jer44-alone","filename":"jer44-alone.jpg","filesize":0,"url":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone.jpg","link":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/en\/the-value-of-deprivation\/jer44-alone\/","alt":"","author":"7","description":"","caption":"","name":"jer44-alone","status":"inherit","uploaded_to":72295,"date":"2020-03-24 16:01:28","modified":"2022-03-07 13:28:19","menu_order":0,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","type":"image","subtype":"jpeg","icon":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-includes\/images\/media\/default.png","width":1920,"height":1275,"sizes":{"thumbnail":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone-150x150.jpg","thumbnail-width":150,"thumbnail-height":150,"medium":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone-300x199.jpg","medium-width":300,"medium-height":199,"medium_large":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone-768x510.jpg","medium_large-width":768,"medium_large-height":510,"large":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone-1024x680.jpg","large-width":1024,"large-height":680,"1536x1536":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone.jpg","1536x1536-width":1536,"1536x1536-height":1020,"2048x2048":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone.jpg","2048x2048-width":1920,"2048x2048-height":1275,"post_full_size":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone-1200x797.jpg","post_full_size-width":1200,"post_full_size-height":797,"home_baner":"https:\/\/wp.929.org.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/jer44-alone-632x420.jpg","home_baner-width":632,"home_baner-height":420}},"embedded_video":"","video_duration":"","show_fb_comments":true,"credit_media":""},"tile":{"top_caption":"","main_caption":"The Value of Deprivation","main_caption_size":"1","sub_caption":"Will we appreciate what we have lost? 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