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Once again we are negotiating with the owner of the apartment. Once again, we recall the insight that rational arguments about lowering the price of the apartment (the walls are peeling, the kitchen is small) are not effective. What determines the cost of rent is emotion. One can save thousands of shekels in a year if you remind the husband and wife owners of the apartment of their life as a young couple. The Hebrew University Professor of Behavioral Economics Eyal Winter, a researcher on rationalism, coined the phrase \u201crational emotion.\u201d \u00a0Emotions, as Professor Winter demonstrates in his research, often serve us better than reason. Falling in love, identification, anger&#8211;these emotions help us survive in the jungle of life. Anyone who knows how to connect emotionally with others will get the apartment, promotion, or election.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Judah turns to Joseph twice. The first time, Judah speaks practically: You are right, we made a mistake, we will be your servants (and in this way, the expected death penalty for Benjamin is mitigated). However, Joseph remains indifferent. And then, \u201cJudah went up to him\u201d (Genesis 44:18). Judah takes a step forward physically and emotionally. He does not add new information to his review of what happened, but he shows a lot of emotion: Jacob\u2019s love for Benjamin; Jacob\u2019s longing for Joseph; Judah\u2019s compassion for Benjamin (\u201cour youngest brother,\u201d see Genesis 44:26) and Judah\u2019s fear of what to expect (\u201c How can I go back to my father,\u201d see Genesis 44:34). <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We usually say that Joseph waited to see if his brothers take responsibility for Benjamin before Joseph discloses his identity to his brothers. 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